There’s always been this stigmatism amongst black
women that rocking a weave all the time is bad. Women constantly seen wearing
anything but their own hair are accused of having an unhealthy natural mane underneath the luscious locks. In 2013, this myth
is still being being passed around as the gospel.
Contrary to popular belief, you can experiment and still maintain healthy hair. There are too many free resources in 2013 for people to continue to thinking wearing weaves or changing up your color means you’re a 'baldheaded scallywag and ain't got no hair in the back' because it just ain't true!
Angela Simmons happens to be one of my personal hair and style idols. Her hair is
always laid no matter what color or
cut she chooses to rock, but she also has beautiful, healthy, chemical-free
hair underneath those luxurious extensions.
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| Courtesy of Angela's Instagram. Check out her natural hair story here. |
Because she's on the go a lot, weaves act as a
protective style for her instead of risking damage from over manipulating her own locks. A lot of women look to weaves and wigs as protective
styles to give their own hair a break. *raises hand* I’m one of them! Because our natural locks are delicate, sometimes it’s best to put it away and let it rest from all the
manipulation of styling and being exposed to the elements. That's the part of the myth people don't tell you.
Unfortunately, some do fall short and get caught up in the aesthetics and forget to
maintain the health of their own hair and there are serious consequences.. Breakage and traction alopecia are some of them. See: Naomi Campbell. So you do take risks if you don't take the time out to make sure your natural mane is cared for properly. If you give your hair lots of TLC, you shouldn't have any worries!
Bottom Line: Wear your hair the way you want
to wear it. If you're iffy about a style or technique, Google it or ask a licensed professional for advice. You can experiment with different looks and still have healthy hair.
Honorable Mention: I absolutely love Janae of Elektrik TV. She's a fellow curly girl who loves experimenting with bold colors. She's tried everything from blonde to green. She's the prime example of someone who takes risks, but she still has a gorgeous, healthy head of hair because she takes the time out to give her hair that extra TLC. If you're interested in experimenting with color, but you're kinda nervous about taking the plunge like myself, check her out! She may boost your confidence just a tad if you're thinking about that ombre 'do or streak of pink! You can take risks and switch up your look and not suffer from damage as long as you're willing to take time to care for your God-given locks.
I'll admit that I've had my reservations about certain things because I don't want to do damage to a year of growth, but I'm willing to put in the time to keep my hair healthy whenever I decide to switch up my style. So on that note, I plan on straightening my hair for the first time since I've been natural, getting some luxurious extensions for my birthday and experimenting with color this summer. Don't let myths keep you from having fun and adding that extra umph to your personal style!
I'll admit that I've had my reservations about certain things because I don't want to do damage to a year of growth, but I'm willing to put in the time to keep my hair healthy whenever I decide to switch up my style. So on that note, I plan on straightening my hair for the first time since I've been natural, getting some luxurious extensions for my birthday and experimenting with color this summer. Don't let myths keep you from having fun and adding that extra umph to your personal style!

Hmmz, your examples make me want to attach in some locks of love lmao, but something is just holding me back... Naomi's unfortunate scalp is like my fear lol.
ReplyDeleteDying on the other hand I have embraced, with the right care my hair has been absolutely fine!
Good read darling.